Barrier..

20th of Sep (Another delayed post)

Marriage

When you make the sacrifice in marriage, you're sacrificing not to each other but to unity in a relationship

• Congratulation to my dearest cousin who just got married today, wish you and your wife will be having a great life afterward despite all the obstacles and difficulties that are laying ahead
• I already can feel my cousin has entered his fatherhood before he's turning into a father. He has given me a lesson on the phone, asking me why I wasn't home with mum in Moon fest.
• 'Moon fest is supposed to be with family' 'You should take care of your mum more' If mum has heard it, she would have felt so warm
• Unfortunately I can't go back to China this time to attend his wedding

Language

• She came back with madness because she was having hard time explaining what she was attempted to do to the counter
• I asked her to chill, she told me 'How can you chill with something that you are unable to do, I was acting like a dummy in the public when I can't speak the language saying something I wanna say. They looked at me as if I am a weirdo :/ '
• This is her, a person just cannot let something go in several hours 
• This is life, barrier exists, you just gotta learn so to overcome it. But it will be always there as she doesn't even want to just take one step further into learning